Love the top--buttery soft, no scratchy lace contact, reasonable support (E/F) AND best of all, girls don't fall out when you sleep on your side. The shorts are well, too short. Bear in mind that menopausal ladies sweat between our legs (seriously, our physiological changes are absurd) , and it is a weird, sticky sweat that makes thigh-thigh contact uncomfortable. Hence the need for sleep pants to the knee, below the knee or to the ankle...don't much care. You are almost there! Luckily I have gorgeous lightweight PJ pants but one does like a set.